Chocolates were shared this morning in the office with post it notes 'Happy Valentines Day' and 'Happy Friday!' with people talking about what they're doing later or planning getaways for the weekend. But the history of Valentines day - and that of the saint that represented it, is actually still shrouded in mystery.
Its still a mystery as to which Saint 'Valentine' was the correct one, and what he actually did to become a 'saint of love.' Its speculated that Saint Valentine was a 'Romeo and Juliet' kinda guy.
It is said that he was imprisoned for helping Christians escape harsh roman prisons. The imprisoned Valentine actually sent the first “valentine” greeting himself after he fell in love with a young girl–possibly his jailor’s daughter–who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter signed “From your Valentine,” an expression that is still in use today.
In the 5th Century Pope Gelasius declared February 14th St. Valentine’s Day. It was not until much later, however, that the day became associated with love.
So much mystery, and yet its one of our biggest festivals, like Easter, Halloween and Christmas. But have you bought into the marketing madness?
Roses, chocolates, a collection of pink and red miscellaneous dotted EVERYWHERE. You cant even go into a pasty shop without being asked if you'd like to buy a pink cake with a heart on the top. Sometimes it just gets too much!
Though it is a fabulous and romantic day, with people all over the world proposing to their selected one, and some even getting wed on Valentines day! Sometimes the prices and pressure of it all just get ridiculously overwhelming.
But if like me, your going to be sitting home with a tub of ice-cream watching 'Friends,' (I'm actually going to an 80's roller disco with my best friend, if the weather stays okay!) That's fabulous too! And your not going to be the only one i can guarantee that!
Sometimes the singles are worse than the couples, with 'single on Valentines' written all over Facebook like a life long promise.
Look at it as an opportunity to see friends or family, go out for a meal or a drink, see a film, catch up with colleagues, maybe even buy a cat! ;)
Heres a happy cat to make your day.
Have a wonderful day,
Laura xo
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